There’s always lots of room for error when it comes to matters of the body. Do you obsess about how you look? Too embarrassed to give him directions? Not open to trying new things?
Here are some of the mistakes women make while sexing with their partners….
If he’s consistently too tired to give you the attention you deserve, have your needs met before his own next time.
If your self-image is hindering your sex life, consult a therapist (not too many around but they exist), read a motivational book or visit blogs like this one. Remember knowledge is power(and confidence).
If you’re too embarrassed to cue him verbally, find another way. For example, if you’re watching a sex scene in a movie (I didn’t say porn), say something like, “I like how he does that” or “That doesn’t do it for me.”
Or bookmark pages in a sex book and ask him to read them. Or let out a moan when he does something that pleases you. I always tell friends and patients this: when it comes to sex, communication is key.
There’s nothing wrong about it. Suggesting something new is not a criticism of you. It’s simply a craving for variety. So have an open mind.